Don't fear failure. Making mistakes can be a good thing. The key to making mistakes into something valuable is to learn from them. Carefully examine a mistake that you made and look for the reasons why you may have made it. In this way, mistakes can actually help lead you to success.
Being over confident can also lead you to miss information and make a mistake.
Many conditions or situations can cause a mistake, from being tired to having a bad habit.
Don't believe that you can't avoid making mistakes. This can actually cause you to keep making them and won't let you learn from your mistakes. Your brain actually helps you to avoid mistakes. A study has shown that the brain reacts in 0.1 seconds to things that have resulted in past errors by sending out a warning signal to prevent us from repeating the same mistake.
Focus on what you are doing right. While learning from your mistakes is valuable, you should also focus on what went right. By focusing on what you are doing well, you can help feel great about your efforts as you work to improve and avoid mistakes.
Make a list of everything you've overcome and all your successes.
Write down qualities about yourself that you value.
Review these lists often for motivation and reminders of your progress.
Start correcting mistakes. Once you notice some mistakes you may have made, you can start correcting them. The method you use to correct them will vary in relation to the mistake you are trying to correct. Review the following examples to get an idea of some corrections you can start to make:
If you regularly miss the due date of a bill, try making highly visible reminders for yourself.
Don't be afraid to ask for help. For example, if you're trying to make your grandmother's recipe for soup but it's not coming out right, try asking her for some advice.
Stay focused on improving. It might be tempting to have your goals set high, trying to be the best at whatever your goal may be. However, it can be easier to find success if you focus on steadily improving over time, rather than the end result.
Perfectionism can lead to anxiety about your goals and your progress.
Practice every day. Part of improving, finding success and avoiding past mistakes is getting enough practice. Getting daily practice is key as it can help you keep your skills sharp and allow you to slowly but consistently improve over time. For example, you could try making your grandmother's soup recipe regularly to improve.
Set aside time each day to practice.
Keep a log of how long you practice each day.
If possible, try to slowly increase the amount of time you practice each day.
If you can't practice certain things daily, a visualization exercise could help. For example, if you find yourself without your guitar, you can imagine playing the chords of a song you are practicing.